
“What matters is that you see if the spark is more than just a one-time thing.There aren't many things that come close to falling for the perfect person - except for listening to love songs and daydreaming about said person. If you meet for breakfast, try a dinner,” she says. If it was a late-night date, go to lunch in the middle of the day. “Do something different than what you did the first time. Paredes says that if you feel that spark with someone, great! But don’t run to the altar and instead take a deep breath, then go out with them again. Love at first sight doesn't guarantee love at second sight.“That partner wants help telling the other that they don't believe there is a real solid relationship, that marriage wouldn't be good, and talks of their meeting as love at first sight but not enough to hold them together.” “It’s usually one partner who is concerned and gets them to therapy,” she says.

O'Neill has also had engaged couples come in to discuss this issue before their weddings.

“This does not mean that this person might be a good lifelong match.” Although physical attraction is needed for a healthy relationship and to be able to maintain a sexual relationship, more is needed to sustain a long term relationship. “Basically, it’s a good match of endorphins between two people and in essence, it is an indication of strong physical attraction,” she says. It is actually caused by a chemical reaction. Yes, love at first sight can be an overwhelming sensation that feels like love but it isn’t, according to Robirosa.
